“Life is complicated, love is simple,”

“Life is complicated, love is simple,” says Trevor Pierce, lead-actor on ABC’s new hit show, Cupid.
Men should still court women! Men should not be afraid to voice how they feel about a woman because he feels like less of a man because he is showing vulnerability. Where did chivalry go?
I can preach all day about how men should treat us like we are in a fairytale, but truth be told, WE ARE letting them get away with treating us in the opposite way!
In life, women make decisions about who they want to date and why. However, lately women have been settling for less than what they deserve. We are starting to let men get away with giving and treating us like the “norm”.


WE don’t mind if men don’t open the doors for us anymore!
WE don’t mind if men just want to “chill” with us instead of asking us on a REAL date!
WE are letting men “talk” to us for longer than three months without making a commitment to us!
WE are ALLOWING men to get away with these things!

THIS IS WRONG ON SO MANY LEVELS!

Just like Steve Harvey said, we have to start setting standards and requirements for men or they will not take us seriously! If he cannot handle our standards than he is not the one for us!
Face it, LADIES! (And I use the term LADIES, loosely!) We deserve so much better! However, if we don’t show that we deserve better and carry ourselves like we deserve better than we won’t receive better! Have class! Make yourself number one! And don’t fall for the bs! Let’s began to have a no bs theory when it comes to men and ourselves!
<3 Stef