It takes a stronger man to lose a battle than it does 2 slay a dragon. When the heat is turned up, and his pride is in the way of his heart, a dragon slayer will take on war, resorting to tactics of the weak 2 emerge victorious. Fighting dirty may win the match, but playing fair will win the game. However, a wise man will choose his weapons wisely..he will bite his tongue when it forms itself 2 spit venom and suppress his child like desire 2 go “tit for tat” against every tease and taunt. And just when it appears that he's losing, the dragon will fall flat, and admit his defeat. Now, let's just call this dragon "woman". Where is this strong man who will never stoop so low as to take on war with the woman he loves? Phenomenal women arise each day and keep their vision clear of the small flames and seek only 2 extinguish wild fires. One of my favorite sayings advises us 2 pick our battles. One should never waste their time with tiny little tiffs about who drunk the last swig of apple juice and instead save their energy to tackle the demons at their doorstep.
Why ruin a lovely day with the person you love just to argue over what took her so long to get ready? One thing about an everyday girl is that she manages 2 see beyond the petty disputes when she has given her "he" her heart. She's the kind of girl who says what she means, not to hurt or degrade, instead she speaks with calm tone and gentle heart. When he sleeps in late and misses the first half of the weekend she had planned, she takes it easy on him, and uses the free time to do some spring cleaning instead. Brothers need 2 step up and follow suit! If she requests your affection during a stressful exam week, just comply, don’t waste your time complaining about how needy she can be at times. A better time to mention this flaw in her is when she begs you to come over at 3am to kill the spider under her bed. When she tells you her phone was in her purse and that explains the missed calls, or that the guy she ran into at the movies is JUST A FRIEND, let it go. But if it ever bothers you too much, tuck away the experience outside of your heart; if the battles begin to form a war, then and only then should you release. Build your knowledge.. think before you leap. Stepping to her about every little situation that arises will only lessen the final impact. Formulate a case and a plan before you point any fingers. Sometimes, you’ll realize your suspicions were without merit. Just a tip for the fellas..Save the drama until the well runs deep, besides, if she's a woman thru and thru, you'll never be able to prove her wrong anyways.
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